I can't believe these idiots, so much like what we went through....I ended up enemies with several of the idiots at my work, along with debbie they have us labeled as "stupid cat lovers", and for me it isn't a big deal, I don't work closely with these fools, they work days and I work nights, your situation may be such that you need to get along with these jerks, so be careful. Kudos to you for trying......tom