Kirsten, I don't have alot of experience with unaltered females. Allie was 4 months when she was spayed, Geo just 2 months, and Minnie came 'pre-spayed'! BUT, a little history on Allie. She is my WILD cat...screaming and crying, shooting out the door, down the hall, acting like a banshee. And, she is 3 now. God how quickly my babies grow up. So, while **maybe** it is a heat, maybe also Lily is just a brat, like my kitty?


However, if you can afford to, don't wait. I know you won't any longer than necessary, but...just wanted to say that


Catcrazylady- my heart broke to read your story. Ally and Dakky came from a kitty that was impregnated too soon..and we nearly lost her, too. She sadly had one kitty pass on, 1 vaginally, and three by c-section. My friend Karlyn and I hand fed the babies for days...and then, even when momma was up to feeding, Karlyn and her bf still woke twice a night to bottle feed, 'just in case'.

So sorry for your experience.