posted by tatsxxx11: It's important that we make our feelings known when we feel the need to speak up. But if we do so with a little less harshness, our points perhaps, will be heard more clearly and advice heeded more acceptingly >>>>>>>>

Your whole post was well said Sandra.
I agree, and on the otherside of the coin,
if you come across a thread that is getting nasty, if
everyone would just ignore it, the thread would END.

Karen