Kelly, I'm so glad to hear that you'll be keeping sweet little Phoebe. Right now I'm trying to give Storm some extra attention because he's very jealous of Cirrus and he's been acting out aggressively towards him. I also give all of them some loving in the morning and evening as well. When I'm using the bathroom they all love to come in for pets especially Cirrus. He's become a real pet hog. Good luck. I'm sure that everything will work out fine.