Well, I will state right here in this forum in writing that if I am ever in this situation and, for some ungodly reason, some body keeps me alive on some feeding tube for 13 years...

I WANT MY HUSBAND TO MOVE ON. My husband has the right to a vital life. He is neither dead or in a coma with me. I hope he finds love, has children, raises them, finds happiness, etc. I NEVER would expect him to sit by my vegetative bedside an nurse me for 13 years.