Let's see...where to begin. When I come home after work I make sure I do "rounds". I seek out all 5 of them and give them a little loving, head rub, kiss, etc. Once the chores are done, I sit down and play with each one, which is kind of hard because Smokey is a toy hog. When I go upstairs to settle in for the night, Smokey and Mystic are usually the first ones on the bed and they each get their own "time-out" with me. Tigger sleeps between Mark and I so she gets me all night and Abner makes his place up on my left shoulder at night so he gets me all night long as well.

Sometimes, I close the bedroom door and have a one on one play session with each one....usually about 5 minutes each.

Anytime any of them come to sit in my lap, I drop what I'm doing and give them my attention. Sometimes they like to be with Daddy, but that is not too often.

Congratulations on adding little Phoebe to your family. She is adorable..such a kissable nose. I'm sure you will do fine with dividing your attention between all of your other beauties.