Chris, hang in there! She may just surprise you one day! Butter surprised me so much the first time he sat in my lap for any amount of time that I wouldn't move! I think I was at the computer desk because I remember typing a message here because I was so surprised and happy! Now, almost 3 years after he showed up at my door, he is known to get in my lap quite frequently, but he does not like to be carried at any time.

Way to go, Ebby!!!