thanks everyone.

yep,

I was hoping that the 'it happens in threes'
was it for me......I'm praying that is the rule in this case....I've 'used' up my three already.

even more frustrating is the fact that there is NO
place to find a picture -I'm still trying to see if i can find a copy of the sheriff's poster-
I haven't spoke to my BF since monday..

again, I'll keep you all posted and when I see something, I'll post it...