I was thinking the same thing until I reread the first post. She said she liked him, but he wants to meet with her and do "it" and that is scaring her. Perhaps what she thought was a nice friendship is turning ugly and that is what is scaring her. I'm not really sure she was asking our opinion on meeting him, but rather what should she do, because the situation is starting to scare her and rightly so. I could be wrong in my interpretation however, as it is a pretty ambiguous post.
thats exactly what it is! im scared b/c of that.