I need advice!

[clara4457]

Originally posted by Pam
I'm lost. This thread has taken a turn and I'm not sure I understand. If you are afraid of Bob I think you already had your answer. Why the need for the advice?

I was thinking the same thing until I reread the first post. She said she liked him, but he wants to meet with her and do "it" and that is scaring her. Perhaps what she thought was a nice friendship is turning ugly and that is what is scaring her. I'm not really sure she was asking our opinion on meeting him, but rather what should she do, because the situation is starting to scare her and rightly so. I could be wrong in my interpretation however, as it is a pretty ambiguous post.

Sweet Stormy - if I am correct in my assumptions, please talk to your mother immediately. She will know what to do to protect you. If you don't feel comfortable talking to her, a school counselor will also help you.

[Cataholic]

Originally posted by 2kitties
Okay, now my red flags are going off. Sorry, but this is getting a little overdramatic. You knew the answer to this situation before you posted it. If this man truly said something to you with sexual reference, then talk to a counselor or your parents because he is suggesting a crime against children in the eyes of the law. It is not normal behavior for a grown man, no matter how mature you may be. It sort of interests me that in recent posts you have so quickly jumped to his defense, then you say you imagine him raping you????? This story is beginning to reak of imagination.

2kitties, WHY do you always get to post it FIRST???? Man....you are just toooooo quick to call it EXACTLY HOW I SEE IT!!!

Bets, anyone? 10-1, this is all an act.....send your money, using paypal, to my pm address....

[lbaker]

a sad situation and I'm very tired of being duped. Advise has been said, take it or leave it but I'm out of here. There are enough truly serious situations we are dealing with, with people we know & love. Do what you know you should or take the consequences on your own. You want help & advise?? You have it. Do with it what you please. Nuff said. End of story.

[sweet_stormy]

I was thinking the same thing until I reread the first post. She said she liked him, but he wants to meet with her and do "it" and that is scaring her. Perhaps what she thought was a nice friendship is turning ugly and that is what is scaring her. I'm not really sure she was asking our opinion on meeting him, but rather what should she do, because the situation is starting to scare her and rightly so. I could be wrong in my interpretation however, as it is a pretty ambiguous post.

thats exactly what it is! im scared b/c of that.

[GoldenRetrLuver]

I'm starting to think it's all a lie too....has happened before.
You got our advice. Forget about "BOB", don't do ANYTHING with him, and stop sticking up for him. A scumbag like that (from what YOU have told us) doesn't deserve it.
Just my 2 cents...

[Karen]

I am going to close this thread. Advice was asked for. Advice was given. Whether it is taken or not is something we cannot control, and there seem to be no good coming from belaboring the point.