IF I knew "Bob" and he said he wanted to "do it" with me, let me tell you, he wouldn't end up being my friend any longer. Don't you realize what your saying??! Your ALMOST 14, and he's 20? You also say you don't care about him in "that way", then why would you even have second thoughts about doing it with him? I would just say a flat out NO right on the spot. Please, listen to what everyone is saying....

Oh, and your not a bad person. We're just trying to help.