Aly is right. What he is proposing is statutory rape. And he SHOULD know that. In most states the definition of statutory rape says if one person is 13 or if there is more than a three year age difference between the two people and one is under the age of 18 its RAPE as far as the law is concerned. Any 20 year old MAN who doesn't know that is not responsible enough to have sex.

You know what to do. Remember our posts about older-younger dating? We all said that it was okay (or most of us) if BOTH people were above the age of 18. (and some of us felt it was ok if both were close to 18)

He may be a nice guy, he may be fun and exciting, but a 20 year old MAN who wants to have sex with a 13 year old is immature at best, and a sick creep at worst. You're a sweet person. Funny, and smart... but he should WANT to be with someone who is an adult. And you deserve to wait until you're older, and ready, and in love with someone who loves and respects you.

Please don't do it.
You can PM me any time. I used to teach high school, and I used to teach sex education... nothing makes me blush.