sweet_stormy: I am scared. I am almost 14 years old.>>>>>>>

I think you just answered your own question.
It obviously doesn't feel right, DON"T DO IT
and DON'T meet this guy.
Call me old fashion, but I think "doing it" should be
special, and saved for that special person that
you are 100% shure cares about you, and visa a versa.

A 20 year old, you are not dating wants to come up
for the weekend and "DOT IT" to a 14 year old
does not care for you in the way that I am speaking of.

Just my two cents.