maybe you should be looking for a new home for Bonnie
Bonnie would be HARD to rehome. We tried and she **FREAKED** out and the people returned her. Finding her a suitable home could take quite a long time.

You could rehome several beloved cats and still not pin point the cause.
This is one of my fears, because once they are gone there is no turning back. No saying....."well, that didn't stop my problem, I want him/her back"

Cats can sense a new cat.....even from the smell on your clothes
But keep in mind that I smell like strange cats (and dogs) EVERY day from work. How could he know the difference?

I am still wishy-washy about what I will do. After all, I still have Jim and his problem might start up again any time now.