Jen, you were/are merely trying to take care of your pets and those in need of a new home. Some kitties adjust better than others.

I know how you feel about Sterling. It would be like me giving Miley a new home, when Ti was the last arrival..... I was more committed to Miley, since I had had her for much longer.

What about a cat behaviorist? Are there any around you? The one I was to engage was not that expensive, although I didn't keep Ti and didn't use her services. I was going to though.

Prayers coming your way!

L,
SAS