I am finding it hard to discourage her form getting a pet, and I知 starting to feel guilty about it, I do not think that I can show her this thread as it will upset her to much, she has about one months to go so I think that I値l try not to upset her she is always at my house playing with my pets, so I think that I will get her to stay at my house for the weekend and see what I have to go through looking after my pets and all the time it takes up and have a good talk with her about it all.