I totally know how you are feeling and thinking, Anna. I had a cousin go through a windshield last Oct, and they actually had open casket. Not to be insensitive or gross, but you can only imagine what someone would look like after going through a windshield. No amount of makeup can make them look themselves. I am totally against open casket. When I close my eyes and think of my cousin, I picture her dead and looking horrible. I was with her the night she died. If she'd had a closed casket, that night would have been my final memory of her instead. I want to be buried without a viewing or open casket.