HMMM..

I am sure I will not be of any help (i don't have any kids)

My brother and sister in law.. were trying to teach their 5 year old daughter that it wasn't nice to refer to her teachers as the "fat" one or the "skinny" one.. and they were telling her she should refer to them rather by their hair color or what they were wearing.

I wish the world could just take it as a discription (hope that is an o.k. word to use) rather than an insult. I mean it is a fact isn't it?!?!? The man was black... his friend is chinese.

Maybe it isn't as bad as it could be.. he is only stating his observations.. The world is so sad that we have to tiptoe around such things as this.