Kelly,

I have found that no matter what people tell you, or how convincing they are, they will do what they please once they have the cat. It's sad but true and I know it's not exactly what you want to hear.

Go with your instincts, Kelly. I have found that's the best way. Mine have never let me down, and I have placed ALOT of cats in my 7 years of rescue.

I would definitely use one of the shelter's adoption forms. I would also make a phone call to their veterinarian to see if their former cat was properly cared for, i.e., update on shots, what kind of illnesses, etc., and I would make a home visit.

I'm the same way you are when it comes to placing cats and kittens that I have put so much love, time and money into.

Good luck and let us know how you make out.