Oh Kimmy, I'm so sorry. Hugs to you and Andy and condolences to all the families. 49 is definitely way too young....

I know my best friend's mom is like my own mom, and I would be just as devastated if something happened to her as if something happened to my mom, but then I would have to comfort my friend on top of grieving myself, so I can imagine how difficult this is for you. Then to have Andy's roommate's mom go at the same time is just horrible, you can't be there to support each other.