Give the meds a chance Jen, but just because he's a "pee-er" in your multi-cat home doesn't mean he would have the same problems in a 1-cat home. Fortunately my 5 have worked their problems out and accept their own positions in the household. (Sometimes I wish the 2 leggers could do as well ) Keep the faith and don't give up quite yet. You have plenty of hugs and thoughts of good will coming your way from all of us. And what do you mean you're not good with people?? I've met you and felt an immediate tug in the mind & heart... how dare you
Laurie