I'm no expert by any means,but when I had placed or adopted
out 4 of Momma Kitty's babies by 12 weeks, I brought the last two
(Redbud & Mikey) inside the house with me & Buddy. They were
confined to the family room downtairs.I put two litter boxes at
opposite ends of the room & they were also fed in that room. I
did not try to make them come to me at all.I acted like they were
not there at all when I was around them.I did let them hide under
the couch or in an open closet if they wanted to & they did hide
for months before I could put out their food, move away & watch
from a distance while they ate. I would always be singing or
talking aloud when I was around them, but never looked at them
at all. Sometimes I would see them peek out from under the
chair skirt or the couch as I sat down to read the paper or change
the station on the radio. They just needed time to see that this
strange looking non-furry creature was harmless. It took about
six months before they wouldn't run & hide when I came into the
room.After that I moved on to playing games with the feather
wand to get their interest, etc,etc. Every cat is different so I guess
it's a different timetable depending on the cat. Good luck Jen &
don't give up. Relax & she will too, in time.