I know how you feel, Jen..... I get that way too sometimes.... just want /need someone to acknowledge!!! Oh, I do feel for you, and especially having to tolerate Jim's "serenading"....would definitely drive me crazy!!!! Is there a room anywhere in your house where you could place him so it's not so easy to hear him? I know you feel for him, but he is fine... YOU need to keep your sanity and not be "on edge" .....so a slilght separation could do everyone some good!

WIsh I had words of wisdom for you, but I do empathasize!!!