Years ago, after high school, a friend of mine married and had a baby. She was driving on the freeway and a Jaguar in the opposite lane lost its steering column, swerved into her lane and hit her head on.

Her baby was killed, she and her sister were seriously injured and her younger brother suffered injuries as well. Shortly after that her husband left her - she was still in the hospital. (he showed up later after there was a large CASH settlement).

Not one of my high school friends would go visit her because they DIDN'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY! I was always stunned by that.

There are people who will be right there if there is something to "receive" - but ask them to give and they are nowhere to be found.

I am so sorry that your dear Aunt is going through such a terrible time right now.

But what strikes me most of all is that you must be a very special person. God love you for remembering all of the wonderful things your Aunt has done for you. Now, that she cannot take care of herself and even under unpleasant circumstances - you have not forgotten that she is still a wonderful Aunt.