I am so sorry to hear that. A good friend of mine just recovered from ovarial cancer but it was stage 1 that she had and it took 2 surgeries and a 3 months period of chemotherapy.

I am afraid stage 4 has a very bad prognosis.

It must be so difficult not being able to help and just to watch how a beloved person feels.

I wish all the strength of the world to you and your family and especially your grandmother. Be sure that it will be a comfort for her when people are just around and offer their hands