I think Betty went overboard BIG TIME!
Hey, we live in a free country!!
If a person doesn't want to date another race, it's there own choice. It's also not like Julie told her not to like him because he was black!! Betty had an opinion and so did Julie!

Racism is hate, it doens't sound like there was hate there!

Your allowed to have your own thoughts about whatever race you want to, and that's not racism, it's your opinion.

It's not like she used a slang term when talking about him either!!!