Thanks everyone for such wonderful advice and support. I called Cathy and told her that I'm afraid I won't be able to foster Toby, as much as I want to. She has a MUCH better chance of getting a home if she's at the shelter where she can be seen in person(who couldn't fall in love with her???) than if she stayed with me. It was a decision made from my heart. I always try to listen to my gut instincts. But when it comes to cats, my heart always takes over. This time is different. I'm sure lil Toby will get a home in the blink of an eye. In the meantime, I can go visit her, smooch her belly and love her all I want till the time comes when someone else realizes what a wonderful little girl she is.

Thanks again guys! I love ya!!