I am sure Ally will understand...it's a little topsey turvey right now and maybe you all don't feel quite happy now...but it will change and it will change soon!!!

Just tell her and give her hugs...it's the quality of time, rather than the quantity of time you spend with your cat that counts...and soon you'll have enough quality and quantity again...just smile and so will Ally do!!!
Happy people make happy cats and vice versa!!!