Dayna,
Where exactly do you live??? If I can be of any help, I'd be happy to. I live in Michigan. I know how difficult it is to give up pets, even though the outcomes have been happy ones (they went to friends and have great homes). The reason the shelter has separated them is because they are boy and girl. If they are both spayed and neutered, then I see no reason why they can't be together. Above all, what you have to do is keep telling yourself that they WILL get homes.
In the meantime, let me know your location and I'll see what I can do from my end, even if I have to foster them myself.
((((((hugs))))))))
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