Yes, I'm sure I have been judged many a time (it happens to the best of us ). It used to bother me, but that's just the way things are. It sucks when people can be so closed-minded, but I try not to let just a few shallow people get to me.
One of my favorite quotes by the honorable Dr. Seuss:
"Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind."