Hey Jordan,

I understand your frustration and everything, but I gotta say that the whole issue of money is between them. You shouldn't get involved.

Why do I say this?? Well, first of all, my daughter Amy went to live with her Dad and stepmom when she was 5 years old. I paid child support till she was 18 years old. They made my life and my daughter's a living hell by not allowing her to spend extra time with me. It was the worst 13 years of my life. But not once did I ever say anything bad about either of them. I figured when my kid got old enough, she'd figure it out for herself, and she did!!

I hope Kristen gets the money. Your Dad is being very vindictive at your expense and yes, it is VERY unfair. Especially since he seems to be able to afford such luxuries as a boat, etc.

Has she thought of going through Child Support Enforcement??? They are great at nailing deadbeat Dads.

Hang in there, okay. Maybe Kristen will change her mind. If not, just remember that things happen for a reason.

((((hugs))))