Originally posted by PayItForward
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What have these cats done to deserve this treatment ?


It is these sort of statments that make me cry. The answer is, of course, nothing. I can't defend what has happened, but, can work to prevent it in the future. That is why I posted my situation. PIF- I know you aren't directing this to me, personally. I wish I had met you 10 years ago...really, I do. It would have made me stop and think.