Johanna, I think you're doing a great job with Minnie. I can also realte. My Cirrus is semi-feral and I can't pick him up. He also runs from me if I get too close to him or make a sudden movement. He loves to get his daily pets and to be groomed though. I've had him for almost 5 months now so hopefully in time he'll become more relaxed. I'm sure that in time Minnie will also become more relaxed around you. Good luck.