I agree with my friend Jen. My dear Mother got along with everyone by accentuating the Positive , as in the ols Song. she simply did not give the Negative people a chance , but always had a smile for all , and was so upbeat in her life!When she came to visit , even The Cats that were scared came to her! There is so much to be happy about. People dont realize just how well we are off in this World. we are the privledged , do you realize that there are 1,0000,000, 000 peoplw who have never even seen a TV , or used a phone or have enough to eat! We are so lucky and so ungrateful for what the Lord has provided! A cat takes what comes and is happy for each day , the way we should be!