You know what????!!!!
Forget it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
If you can't let go of something you cannot control, then it will control you.
You yourself, in that last post, said
There is NO way we can stop them lying....... there is no way we can keep it from happening
but then you contradicted yourself by saying
All we can do is try to stop it.
Now answer this: How can we stop what we can't keep from happening?
THAT is the exact reason we need to ignore it! If those people do not get the attention they are seeking, they will move on to a place where they WILL get the attention.
So, you don't want to drop the subject? then DON'T.....but don't complain about it making pet talk different than it used to be.