They are doing this to taunt you, as they know how you feel, so it gives them some big sick pleasure out of telling you cruel things, as they know it will get to you.

As hard as it may be, try to ignore them or come up with something witty that will put them right in their place.

Obviously they think they are big MACHO guy's by telling these sick things, in truth they probably are not.

Maybe you need to find their weak spot, and see how they like it, I know two wrongs donot make a right, but sometimes..................

FEEL FOR YOU.