I get frustrated when people judge too. I work a dirty blue collar job. When I get off of work, I am filthy, and my clothes are often holey. I'm often mistaken for homeless or a lesbian just because of how I look after work. (*no offense to lesbians, my two closest friends are a lesbian couple) I am amazed at the difference in customer service when I am dressed in my work clothes opposed to showering and dressing girly. It doesn't really bother me to much, though. I make more money then most lawyers, so I just laugh myself to the bank.

My brother's average outfit is nappy long hair, holey jeans, and a marilyn manson shirt...the rest of our family was cracking up the last time we traveled. He got stopped and searched a dozen times. We joked with him that we weren't bringing him next time cause he holds us up.

When I was younger, I was into the piercings and different hair colors. I can remember getting alot of attention for that. Truthfully, looking back, I think I did that stuff for attention anyways.