I think you should not second guess that decision. First of all, if this was your normal veterinarian, who you trust with your own pets, then you should trust him now, with this decision about Toby. I guess if I were to be angry or second guessing anyone, it would be the uncle who let him get into such a terrible situation in the first place. What a terrible situation to let the dog get into...maggots, no veterinary attention for 5 years?

You did a very noble thing, trying to help him, and gave him love and dignity in his final days. Do not beat yourself up about this, or blame your vet. I'm sure he did what was in the best interest of Toby, who is happy, healthy, hearing, seeing and running now. Of all his 14 years, I'll bet his best days were the ones he was with you.

Logan