Ow - those tubes are quite a sight. I think that they really give us a clearer picture of what was going on in Camp Vermont behind your back SAS. Ti wasn't playing or rough-housing with Miley - he was mauling her

I know that if I were in the same situation as you, I'd have to make the same decision. Most blended cat families find some kind of resolution and yours didn't.

Its so sad to see the scars left by undersocializing or neglecting kitties when they are babies. It was awful that Ti's nasty breeder didn't socialize him properly. Hang in there - his forever home will be found and Camp Vermont will find peace and quiet.