Leslie,

I know the stress you're feeling! Try to not worry too much because I'm sure everything will work out. The first few times I moved Shiloh into a new place with me, she would get VERY STRESSED. Two of the times, she didn't eat or use her litter box at all for the first 3 days. She always adjusted though. I know all cats are different, but I would give B a little more time before worrying.

Maybe you guys can spell her name Buddie? That sounds a little more feminine, right?

I wish you the best of luck. If only we could tell the sweet girl that she won't have to worry about anything in your house.