Originally posted by Kirsten
...people keep telling me how hard it would be to travel when you have to cats...
What a silly comment, I would have laughted out loud. Have they not heard of Pet sitters & catteries.

....criticizing me for being "overprotective" with my cats and find it overcareful that I don't let my cats sit in open windows or leave them alone with burning candles. Or that I've banned toxic plants from my place and take the cats to the vet when they show signs of illness.
Life is risk but you don't take silly risks. You set a cat's lifestyle to an acceptable risk level. I wouldn't have toxic plants in the house, or lit candles etc. (I do let them sit on the low living room window but it is very low and my cats are inside/outside)
And who would let their cats suffer, all pets should be taken to the vets at any sign of problems some people

I'm so very disappointed about everything! Instead of looking forward to Lily, everyone seems to want to ruin it for me, just as if it's not meant to be!
It is meant to be. Luna needs her sister.
Be happy with your online PT friends, we'll help you celebrate young Lily's arrival & introduction with Luna.