Have you tried keeping her in your room with a cat bed on the floor. If she jumps on the bed put her back on her bed. If she keeps waking you up, put her in the spare room. Hopefully she'll learn to stay in the same room as you guys, she has to be quiet.

Playing a radio/tape of classical music in her room might calm her down.

Or maybe you could adopt a second cat for company. If she has a friend to play with she'll not be bothered about getting your attention all the time.