Originally posted by Twisterdog
I personally think that not much can be said here by strangers on the internet that is going to be valid. We don't know this family, these people, and we are getting one side of the story. In this case, I bet there are four stories: the mom's, the daughter's, the boyfriend's ... and the truth, which is probably a little bit of all of them, somewhere in between. I think ILBF needs to talk to someone in real life, someone that knows her and knows the situation - a guidance counselor, someone from her church, a friend's parent, etc.

Having said that, the best I can offer here is that I feel this is probably a case of "Three Wrongs Don't Make a Right."
I agree.