I have to agree with a combination of things.
Yes, she should have simply done what she was told, but I have also been in that same situation, tho my mom is in no way schizo or anything, and we have a good relationship. We would be doing dishes and I would across the kitchen putting stuff away or in the next room and she would say, 'Turn off the disposal' All she had to do was turn and reach out her hand! She tried that one time a couple years ago, she told me to get her and my dad's coats out of the closet without looking at me, not realizing that I was sitting in the chair with a lump and ice bag on my leg b/c I had ran into the trailer hitch of my dad's van. My dad told her to get them herself and pay attention. Keep in mind I was probably 25 years old at the time!
But living with a person that can change at the drop of a hat I am sure is no picnic. I have no experience with this, but I feel you are in danger of being abused. First it is the clock, then it is you. And I am sure your mom will blame you also.
Your mom is too blame for putting you in an undesirable situation like this. Maybe moving to Georgia isn't so bad, to get away from him. It is unfair that your mom drag you across the country at the drop of a hat.
I am sorry you are having trouble like this. The only way I could think of is emancipating yourself, and I am not sure you are financially able to do that.
Keep your chin up.


You did Good ACGAS!