First of all, if you aren't suppose to be on the computer, I wouldn't be makin' posts about my 'mean' mom.

Second, you said you were in the middle of homework at 9.00pm -- what were you doing before hand? Why such a late start? Start earlier on the nights you know she has things that she wants to do.

It may not be fair but it doesn't have to be -- it's the rule.

And as for the 'embarassing tales,' it's written in the fine print of "motherhood" that they're allowed to brag and/or embarass their kids at any given time!