I know how you feel ... Mom saw a picture of Lily and she was like "I never expected her to be like a siamese cat ... Toby is cuter" Maybe she doesn't like siamese cats for some strange reasons but its still rude to say such a thing .. I know both my kitties are adorable! Just like your Lily Kirsten, she is precious! I just don't bother when ppl give comments like that about animals .. they just aren't serious pet lovers, and that probably won't change no matter what you say. =/