Anything I would say at this point would need to be directed to your mother, not you. But I SO agree with what Sandra has said. I am a mother of a pre-teen girl, and I have been a "single mom" for most of her life. Should you have stopped and gone to turn off the alarm? Probably. But of course, he could have/should have too! I figure there is a lot more history here than we could possibly know about. I'm praying that you and your mother can heal your relationship, with or without the boyfriend.

Please know that you will be in my thoughts and prayers. This is too much for one teenager to have to deal with.

Logan