Uhhh, I'm not sure how to ask this politely, so I'll blurt it out and ask you to convert it to polite yourself.

For your health sake, aren't you trying to cut down on stress right now? From what little you've said about this new shelter, it looks like you'll be ADDING stress here, not cutting back. Maybe this isn't the right time/place for you to be. Think about it and pray about before you commit. I don't want you tackling more than you can physically cope with. Worried about you...