I hate to tell you this but it was not our falt!!!!! Me and Erika reacted perfictly calm and just held them! Me and Erika kept them together with me holding Bear and Erika holding Nikki! I WILL NOT put bear in a crate and ignore him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! He is almost 14 years old and if he was with her and I was ignoreing him he wold not be happy! We have stopped trying because he is so old and he has heart problems and could easily have a heart attack!!!!!!!! Thank you for trying but I do not agree!!!!!!!!!!!!