I've been married for six months now. The one thing, and I mean, the only thing, that my husband does that irritates me is makes jokes about Butter. He is not a cat person, or at least doesn't admit to being one. He is learning. We have two, and they were with me long before he was! I think his comments now are much more in jest, because I find him with cats sleeping on him, constantly, or see him petting one, who is sleeping or walking past him. But I don't like his comments, and he is my husband!!! A stranger's comments would tick me off even worse!!! Joking or not, less commentary is better, in my opinion!!!